Language development is one of the most intriguing things I can think of. I remember as a young child sitting in history class, maybe in sixth or seventh grade listening to my teacher teach on some ancient civilization. I remember it because of the un-thought out question that I had. The statement was made that the civilization did not have a written language. Before the teacher could explain further my hand sprung up and I was called on to ask “if they did not write things down, how did they communicate?” Yes I very un-thought out question. Being able to communicate is the the same thing as being able to write.
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Going off to work is one thing, going on a date night is another, but a whole weekend… Friday night, Saturday night, how many of you parents are cringing as you think of the idea. You know all of your family routines. You know the cries and the times of day that they just need to snuggle. You know what a day, weekend looks like with your family. And you know how much effort you put into keeping it all together. Maybe you have a grandparents that want to help and are looking forward to “a lengthy time” with the kiddos. Maybe you have a sibling who loves to help out and has a super awesome idea for a whole weekend trip or maybe you have awesome friends who step in and do you a huge favor. Whatever the case is you know that the responsible adults who are helping are giving a whole lot of energy.
How do you get ready? What do you need to do?
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Today we take a look at party planning for a toddler. The child party making scene is an interesting one to me. Theme of the Party. Children’s games. Party favors. Invitations. Family. Friends. All of these things are included and will detailed the planning process. Thank for watching.
The link above is an attachment to my new vlog entry. Lots of good stuff on stereotypes as they relate to parenting.
In this episode I talk about the steps we have taken so far to being a single income family and for me to be a stay-at-home dad. Cheryl and I are goal setters and planners. Additionally we believe heavily in the family unit. We are placing the value of family ahead of career in order to give our children more time for the things we think are important. It has been a 10 month process. If you are looking at having a parent stay at home. Think about what you want it to look like. What will change. How will the family need to change. How will the family benefit from this change. What might be your stumbling blocks. We concentrated a lot on budget and finances. We are excited to be able to teach our children values, morals and responsibilities.
Here is a YouTube video of the kiddos through out this week. A little glimpse into what more time with the kiddos will be like. Enjoy, thanks for reading and watching
On Friday we had our quartly inspection by our licening agency. As I had posted in a previous post, the state implemented new rules on foster parenting in February. Yesterday’s inspection was the first since the new rules were put in place. Also, yesterday’s inspection was the first done by our new worker. Needless to say, we were a little antixious with the scheduled visit.
Before the worker arrived we had a few tiding up items on our to-do list. We ran around like ants getting everything in place. We double checked our new first-aid kit and took down the garden lights, checked our fire extinguisher and smoke detectors ahead so if there was an issue we could fix it. We both inspected the window above the toilet and agreed it had to be ok (otherwise we are going to have to put another fence around our pool).
About five minutes before the scheduled inspection their was a ding-dong at our front door (ahead of schedule my type of person) It was a new face, our new licening agency worker. We exchanged greetings and went to the dining room table. Then came her first request. “I need you insurance and registration”. Simple enough request except, we have have given them that already back in January. The thought in my head was “are we going to have to duplicate everything we have all ready done because we have a new worker?” I got up and head to the cars. After getting the requested registrations I came back in and Cheryl is communicating my thought ( without me saying anything)
From there we talked about the kiddos. The things happening with their cases. The process of adoption of LR and the upcoming court date for B-Rad and Nat. We talked about services and needs. After about 10 minutes things were moving and it felt a lot less like we were going to need to repeat everything.
We got up to do the inspection. First thing on the list was the master bed. We looked at our locked bedroom window. Then we moved on to the toilet window. She agreed the window would work. YES!!! We moved to the kitchen where we checked the water temp, looked at the cabinet Grandpa Jerry had installed a lock on for us and quickly moved along. Into the play room-den. She loved some of our remodeling ideas we have. Then into the kiddos bathroom and into the kiddos rooms. We asked if she wanted to see the first aid kit and she said that she did not need to look in it.
From there she said that she would be in contact to schedule our next inspection for the next quarter. After she left Cheryl look at me and I said, “all that worrying”. We had built several mountains out of the mole hills in front of us.
Thank you for taking time to read. Coming in future weeks new YouTube videos, updates from court, and anything else that comes up. Check out our website. http://www.oaksacorns.com It is in its infancy but I plan on making it our central hub of for all things Covert family happenings. Also we have started a new Facebook page http://fb.me/msg/oakacorns which, like our other social media offerings it will be another arm our baby puzzle journey.
Today we had both state workers visit our home.
The first was for LR. We spent about an hour filling out paperwork with the worker. She described the process to us as what to expect going forward. The worker still has reports to finish and also she will be petitioning the courts soon. At the end of the conversation we asked when adoption would happen and she said most likely at the beginning of June. The process seems to take forever. Still, I think can can see a light at the end of the puzzle.
The second worker came for B-Rad and Nat. We talked about what to expect at the court case coming up in April. She told us that the littles had a new baby brother born today. She also told us that the case findings would most likely take two months to come out. Like all things foster, it is slow and methodical. No worries, Cheryl and I are not heading any where.
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Yesterday at 3:30 I officially entered my “spring break” from work. Later this evening Spring will officially begin. With time off of work comes the “I will do it on break list” (kinda like New Years resolutions but in March). One of the things that I have placed on this list is to be more dedicated to keeping our baby puzzle blog updated. No big updates today, but there should be a few coming down the pike in the next as we meet with both state workers, our living agency, and a potion attorney all in the next six days. In the mean time I have uploaded two short videos to You Tube. Thanks for you support and thanks for reading
- B-Rad’s video
- Little Nat’s video
- Bonus: LR’s video